Once the global pandemic of 2020 began, the concept of “The Covid Bubble” or “The Pod” or “The Quaranteam” was a foregone conclusion — because self-isolation is not sustainable, and Zoom visits are not completely satisfying, and because it’s human nature to join a special clique so you can be stuck-up and exclude everyone else.
Essentially the premise to this entire idea is finding a select group of people who unanimously agree to forsake all others, thus deeming them “safe and healthy” so you can socialize together and not be so bored. Plus you’ll always have another wife to blame for the food poisoning your family gets from the backyard picnic because obviously she’s the one who left the mayonnaise out on the counter too long.
If you’re going to approach this idea, do so fully armed utilizing the following:
- Keep a list of all families that are potentials to Bubble-Up with, but before you make final selections, weigh their important criteria in an official Pros/Cons list. Let’s say your neighbors are named the Johnsons:
PROS OF THE JOHNSON FAMILY
- They just got a super cute fluffy kitten!
- The mother is a great cook!
- The father likes sports and will organize baseball games between the families.
- They have a teenage daughter who babysits!
- They have a swimming pool!
- They share our belief system about the song, “Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go!”
- They have a Hulu account!
CONS OF THE JOHNSON FAMILY
- Anyone who pets or “oohs and ahhs” at their mediocre scruffy kitten must also clean its litter box.
- When she cooks, the mother uses only full fat cream, butter, cheese, and beef in her recipes and thinks “Low-Cal” is a term for people who reside in the valleys of California.
- The father was in the military, so when a ball hits you in the head, he shouts, “C’mon Soldier, shake it off!”
- The teenage babysitting daughter sneaks out to see her boyfriend in the middle of the night. (The boyfriend is social distancing . . . with his entire high school cheerleading squad.)
- They don’t heat their pool, and skinny dipping is a rule, AND your husband is astonished they’ve never heard of “Shrinkage.”
- When “Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go” comes on the radio, they’ll quickly change the station…to one that plays, “Achy Breaky Heart.”
- They only watch “The Hot Wives of Orlando” on their Hulu account.
2. Establish clearcut guidelines and boundaries regarding frequency and longevity. This is a temporary status. You are not becoming a commune, a cult, a reality TV show, or a kibbutz in Israel.
3. The level of trust and commitment between families regarding staying exclusive must be elevated. There should be zero tolerance for infidelity. If a family hasn’t sowed their wild oats in their younger years by playing lots of Monopoly and Scrabble with other neighbors, you may be at risk for betrayal — you could catch them weakening and giving into temptation….straying over to the Smith’s kitchen table, and holding a seance for example.
4. Don’t get all cutsie with this concept and start telling people you’re in a “Double Bubble with Barney Rubble” because that will just cause Trouble. Same with always using the phrase, “I hate to burst your bubble but….” However it might be a nice touch to invite your new group over for a bubble bath, letting them dry off with bubble wrap instead of towels, or offering everyone Bazooka Bubble Gum when they first join. (That’s the event planner in me who believes in creative themes and take-home party favors speaking!)
5. Don’t forget to ask the most serious question of all: “Do you already have masks and gloves? This will lesson the expense of your joint family baseball tournament if their pitcher and ump already own such costly sports equipment!
6. Never get hurt feelings if the family you ask to Bubble-Up with you declines. It doesn’t mean you guys have bad breath or your kids have too many temper tantrums. It usually comes down to the fact that your Cons far outweigh your Pros. As an example, the Johnson family (above) politely turned me down when I asked them to be in a Bubble with us. When I was certain they weren’t looking, I snuck a peek at their Pro/Cons and saw that under “Cons” someone had written, “The mother is a nosy snoop, she’ll scapegoat our condiments if they get food poisoning, and she makes crucial life or death decisions using a dumb Pro/Con chart. Plus she’ll probably end up blogging about us if she gets bored.
Hey, Stephanie, are you still around? Just saying Hi, and hoping you are well. And would like to know if you are not well…
very nice…haven’t heard from you in awhile..thought i’d stop by to check in..ahh this pandemic…would have been much more fun if it was a pun-demic, but no one asked me what i thought…lol..hope you’re well..namaste!
Hey you! Pundemic….I love that! I’m hanging in there. Am I still your friend on FB or did I get booted when you changed over? lol. Sure was enjoying your art. And guess what? I am not voting either. Your post today is awesome.
nope..you are still my friend on the Nia Love page..i just checked..and good on you for not dismissing me over this issue:) I cant even go online today- nothing but voting talk and posts..
I would never have thought Scrabble and Wild Oats could be part of the same sentence.
Loved it! The “Pros/Cons” list was great – as was the rest of it!
Loved it! The “Pros/Cons” list was great fun to read – as was the rest of it!